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Low Maintenance Relationships
Relationships that work best are the ones that require the less amount of effort. Effort is work. Work isn’t fun. When it’s easy it feels right. Like that relationship you have with that one friend who you talk to about once a month. You don’t text daily or anything, but you get on the phone…
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Avoiding Autopilot

It’s very easy to drift into autopilot throughout the day. Putting on blinders and just focusing on what’s up next on your daily routine. I notice sometimes being on autopilot when I’m sitting in traffic, walking into starbucks grabbing my coffee, on the phone, lifting, sitting in class, watching TV, reading, etc etc. Basically all…
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“Gun, Why Do You Blog?”

The person you become is a direct reflection of your lifestyle. Your lifestyle is an accumulation of your habits and routines. I have a mental image of the type of person I wish to be when I turn 60. An ideal version of myself. How did that person become who he is? How did they…
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Blank Canvas

Every day is a renewable blank canvas. A new opportunity to change your mode of thinking. A new mode of thinking allows you to look at the things outside of your control and adjust how you look these conditions and ultimately how it affects you. It’s easy to fall victim to the external. Allow it…
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Reflecting Not Dwelling

You learn from the past to prepare for the future. One must be careful when rehashing the past, mistakes and screw ups. There is fine line between dwelling and reflecting. Dwelling is defining ourselves by the mistakes of the past, while reflecting is learning and growing from them in the form of lessons. Far too…
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The Face to Face Element

In today’s age, communication is more convenient than ever. We can immediately communicate with one another with various degrees of separation. These separations scale from texts or emails, which are very impersonal and rather dissociated, all the way to video chat which is rather personal and intimate. And having all these capacities of communication is…
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Powerful Environments

Much like how a teacher may influence your interest in a particular subject, your environment can influence your work. Maybe you don’t hate working out as much as you actually just hate the gym’s environment itself. Maybe you don’t hate the field you work in you just hate your current work conditions. Maybe you don’t…
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Party of One

Most of life’s journey is traveled alone. This is not unique to those who are single, because we are all on our own paths regardless of having a copilot. Each and every single one of us have varying careers, commutes, hobbies, interests, and pursuits. Although you may not physically be alone, you are alone in…
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The Race is Long…Kinda

It’s very easy to get discouraged when we compare ourselves to others. We think to ourselves…”Wow I’m already so behind. They are so lucky. How do I catch up?” We don’t consider the hard work they put in, the luck, or the understanding of where we are in life. For many of us including myself,…
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Freeing From the Internal Voice

Forewarning, maybe I’m the only weirdo that does this, but I think we can all relate. During my commute this morning I noticed I was arguing back and forth with my own thoughts for entirely wayyyy too long. It literally got to the point where I got weirded out by myself. These arguments never really…
