Sometimes you do not know.
You do not know if you want to pursue that thing.
That thing being a new career, project, relationship, hobby… anything.
You know you are interested but just are not sure.
You go back and forth in your mind. You just cannot decide what you want to do.
So you ask someone their input, what do they think?
That person tells you no. No its a bad idea. Don’t do it.
One of two thoughts now run through you mind.
Yes, they are correct. I really do not want to do it.
Or,
No, no they are wrong and now I want to do it more than ever.