I think people worry too much about loving their current situation.
I know I do.
“I’m not where I want to be. Dating who I want to be. Having the money I wish I had. The physique I want to have. The strength I want to have” yadda yadda.
Loving the process is key. So you need to decide to love your current scenario. Because most likely if you do not… even if you do reach your goals, you probably will be miserable anyway. Look at how many depressed celebrities exist. If you are never satisfied, can never find love in your current scenario, you’ll never be happy.
Find the balance of loving your current scenario while being uncomfortable enough to continue to grow.
You grow from the process and the love will grow with it.