Know your mood.

If you’re not there to play ball don’t show up.

Lets say you have plans but you just aren’t feeling it.  It’s a big party and everyone can’t wait to have a blast. Except for you. Moods happen and that’s totally okay.  Sometimes it’s better to opt out than be the vibe killer.

Know your role.

Some things aren’t meant to be changed.

You’re invited to a hangout with a new group of friends. They have plans that you’re not interested in. In fact you’re not really digging it at all.  You may feel inclined to try to change things, suggest new plans. But these plans work with this group, before you and after you. So if you try to change everything, you could end up not being invited again.

Know your self.